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Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 03-30-2006 10:55 AM
[26-0984] We don't have kids so we don't have much exposure to children and the very young .... We were adults when we came to discover all that fascinates about silver. At the last show, I made a mental note to notice how many young people were at the show (helper, attendee, in tow). Basically, if they weren't in a stroller there wasn't a young person in attendance. If we want to save silver from being scrapped by future generations we need to figure out how to share (infect ) our passion with the young. How to introduce silver to the young? How to elevate the young's respect and appreciation of the old things that we treasure? And if we are lucky, convert a few into collectors? Any thoughts? IP: Logged |
hello Posts: 200 |
posted 03-30-2006 11:24 AM
I think most young people just don't "know" about silver. It's more exposure and education more than anything else. Before I started collecting silver, I assumed that anything good(interesting) would be out of my price range, based on the reputation silver has. Around here good silver is hard to come by(and by good I mean anything above average) and therefore hard to collect. The internet has helped change that, because it is not only easier to learn on it(or more importantly, how to learn, books etc.) but also to learn where to find it(shops, shows etc.) I think there is a very logical explanation for why people generally don't start collecting till they are a little older. There is the expression "young poor man-rich old man, and rich young man-poor old man" The problem is that a young person who is relatively intelligent and financially capable generally makes long term investments when they are younger(ie house, education etc) and therefore do not have the disposable income untill they are a little older. Many young people today just are not interested, b/c(at least in my opinion) they have not learned to take life seriously yet. They waste their money on everything and anything, and when they do decide to get serious, have none(or not alot). Point being is that this is a financial problem more than anything else, and therefore it is only natural that people don't collect till later in life. The speed of response, the amount of new long-term members joining, is all proof of how silver is "growing." It's because of people like the moderators/members of this forum that people become interested, and the amount of knowledge shared is amazing. One thing that would be nice(to encourage hesitant posters) is a collection of "favorite" posts. (ie, the miles greenwood pitcher, and Samuel Minott posts would be good examples) [This message has been edited by hello (edited 03-30-2006).] IP: Logged |
swarter Moderator Posts: 2920 |
posted 03-30-2006 02:12 PM
I wonder if this is really a new phenomenon, or just human nature. The young have enough to learn in school and have their whole lives to look forward to. They are busy starting careers, earning a living, and raising children. As we grow older, we develop a history of our own, and more of an appreciation of the past. It seems that people's interest in antiques, in genealogy, and in history is something that develops later in life for most people, perhaps because they have more time to devote to those pursuits, after the children are raised, the debts paid off, and especially after retirement. [This message has been edited by swarter (edited 03-30-2006).] IP: Logged |
FWG Posts: 845 |
posted 03-30-2006 02:45 PM
I'm with hello on this. I only started collecting in my 20s, after going to an auction with a friend and being amazed at how reasonably things were selling -- I suddenly realized that even I could afford to collect some really neat things. I've had at least two undergraduate students over the years who had similar experiences, and now have serious collections. To my mind, the main problem is a widespread lack of historical knowledge, or interest. Most people are so turned off by history in school that they never get into it in a personal way, which I think is necessary to collect historical objects. What is needed is to find a way to catch people's interest, which in my experience is most easily done by connecting the objects to the lives they participated with, and those lives in turn to aspects of modern life that people can identify with. Gotta run now (for an interesting talk on language and linguistics), but this is an important question. IP: Logged |
venus Posts: 282 |
posted 03-30-2006 04:05 PM
My children are interested, very much so in silver and other things such as art and china and furniture. They watch the Roadshow and Find! Enjoy all of it. Sit down with me and enjoy looking at my vintage jewelry and grab some to take home and wear. LOL Do they collect on their own? No..... but they don't for all the same reasons that I didn't when I was young. Busy life, make that money pay that bill. The grand daughters are at my house everyday and they love the mystery of unusual things. It comes to each in their own time. IP: Logged |
tmockait Posts: 963 |
posted 03-30-2006 04:50 PM
Having children seriously reduced my abiity to buy silver or much of anything else for some time! I did not start collecting until my 30s and then very intermitantly. I have three sons, 17, 20, 22 who look at my collection of spoons and tell me I need to get a life, but that is pretty standard father son dialogue. We'll see how things change as they get older. Tom IP: Logged |
hello Posts: 200 |
posted 03-30-2006 05:25 PM
Plus the time it takes to become a serious collector. I have learned a ton in a year and a half, thanks mostly to this site and the internet in general. I can only imagine how long it would have taken me to learn without the use of this site. And as much as I know, I still know very little because most learning comes from time, experience and handling pieces. Now I can comfortably say that I know more than the average dealer, and yet much less than an experienced silver dealer/collector. Basically the best thing we can do is educate the people who do show interest, that they may also pass that info on to others. IP: Logged |
witzhall Posts: 124 |
posted 03-30-2006 07:59 PM
I don't know - I think kids are great collectors! Remember all those boxes of rocks, stamps, matchbooks, trading cards, etc., etc. I think they just need to be channeled into collecting the kinds of things (e.g., silver) that will be meaningful to them as a lifelong pursuit. FWG says: quote: And swarter says: quote: I guess my view is that getting into history in a personal way has to come first, so if we try to foster in our children and grandchildren at a young age an interest in their own history - i.e., genealogy - they will appreciate much more and much earlier - also with guidance from parents and grandparents - the material things that were important to their ancestors. And this might have a beneficial influence on their education as a whole! IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 03-30-2006 08:22 PM
June just saw this thread and said “I didn’t see anyone under 35-40 at the last show.” I have to agree with her but then I’d have to admit my age. IP: Logged |
hello Posts: 200 |
posted 03-30-2006 11:00 PM
What kind of show where you at? I know a bigger local antique show around here is Christie's (a park) in Burlington. It's the only show I've really had a chance to go to, but it has a wide variety of antiques, as well as vintage items, and there were all ages there. If you were at a high end show, you would likely attract only those interested in high end silver/items. I'm sure there are regional differences, but around here all variety of antiques are generally popular. IP: Logged |
Dale Posts: 2132 |
posted 03-30-2006 11:07 PM
When I was on a show circuit, the central issue we always talked about was the lack of young collectors. My observation has been that young collectors will go to antique malls and flea markets, and an outdoor show. But they will not attend an indoor show. No clear reason, but it has been that way for a while. In some ways the established shows really are a closed off world. And one that is not open and inviting. Perhaps a thread on the problems with the shows would help. IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 03-30-2006 11:13 PM
Triple Pier Show March 18 & 19, 2006 Passenger Ship Terminals 55th Street & 12 Avenue NYC IP: Logged |
hello Posts: 200 |
posted 03-30-2006 11:22 PM
Hmm, I think you have got it. People go to antique shows to find things they like, collect, etc. If there is a high end show, the expectation is that there are no deals to be had(which is probably not true), therefore only those who are truly interested attend. I think range is one of the most important things the average dealer can have. Something in the price range for everyone. What I have noticed at the few shows I have been to, is that people line up to go through piles of junk hoping to find something, but the higher end booths with mainly premium items get very little attendance. They are simply out of most peoples price range. Half the battle of any seller is to get people in your shop/booth. But if they look in and see only expensive style items, they may not bother going in. I am talking from very limited experience here, one of my goals this summer is to attend more shows, b/c last year it seems I only found out about the good ones at the last minute, this year I have no excuse. IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 03-31-2006 12:13 AM
I am not ready to accept things as the are. I may have to but not yet ..... I am looking for new ideas and approaches..... Long before June and I became interested in collecting silver we would go to antique shows not really to buy things. Every once and a while, we would come home with something, but not often. Most frequently, we would go with our friends who were shopping for items for their homes/apartments. For us going was about two things. The first was an outing with friends. The second was that it was like going to a museum but one where you were allowed touch things. It was cool to be able to touch the past. My interest in the past began in the 11th grade. Just like most, in school I hated history and just about everything else about school. That all changed on the first day of 11th grade world history. The instructor was a few minutes late so we students were all out of our seats and horsing around. The instructor (a retired Air Force Colonel) shows up with his briefcase where upon most of us chickens rushed to our seats. Without a word or a look, he strolls in, goes to his desk at the front of the classroom, opens his briefcase, takes out the morning paper and starts reading and sipping his coffee, never looking up. After a few moment of silence from the instructor most of us go right back to horsing around. A minute or two later the instructor grunts, grumbles and shakes his head at something he has just read. One of the nearby students reacts as if the instructor had said something to him. Soon the student and instructor are talking about what the instructor has been reading in the newspaper. One by one each of us joins the discussion. Before we new it, the instructor had us relating current events to history. Soon we had our history books open. Every day was like that. We would start by discussing current events and the instructor would help us make the connection to world history. It made our overnight reading assignments fun and interesting. I have been hooked on history and the past ever since. I feel we could be as creative as my history teacher was. I am looking for a few good ideas. IP: Logged |
swarter Moderator Posts: 2920 |
posted 03-31-2006 01:17 AM
Well, Scott, if only all history teachers were like yours. My high school history teacher did nothing but make us memorize dates, and my college history teacher -- well, that is a different story. When we walked in on the first day, he was already there, leaning back in his chair, his sandalled feet up on his desk. After an interminable time, he sat up, and looked slowly up and down the rows, fixing his gaze silently on each one of us before moving on to the next one. When he finished this exercize, he leaned back in his chair, feet back up on his desk, and, looking up at the ceiling, announced: "Ladies and gentlemen, this course is like rape -- it is inevitable -- so you might as well sit back and enjoy it!" That is about all I remember about the course, except that the only thing he seemed interested in was which mistress which king slept with on which night. My interest in history developed in spite of these "teachers," and not because of them! The teachers in the other subjects were pretty good, which made the history experiences seem even worse, but I think that, while a good teacher can stimulate interest, that interest must be there already, perhaps only waiting to be awakened. IP: Logged |
asheland Posts: 935 |
posted 03-31-2006 02:33 AM
These are some really good posts. I myself like the shows, especially the high end ones. I agree, it's like a museum where you can touch the items. I once handled a Paul Delamerie Cann and a Paul Revere Lemon or Tea Strainer at the same show. Where else can you see stuff like that outside a museum? I will agree that very few young people are into antiques. I am 29, and can only remember one friend my age even remotely interested in old silver. But, I guess that's just the way it is. I have been into antique silver for over 10 years now. I can remember in my teens and early 20's being watched as I looked around in some of the better antique shops. I guess I looked out of place. Oh well. IP: Logged |
Raf Steel Posts: 94 |
posted 03-31-2006 05:54 AM
I my experience young people tend to go to shows and exhibitions where more recent 'antiques' are shown. Highlighting post war silver might help to attract young collectors. One big hurdle: there aren't a lot of books available for the modern silver collector to start with, and 'modern' silver is difficult to come by. Also young silversmiths tend to 'cater' a younger audience, that's why I find the 20/21 cent. forum so interesting and important. Could we get young (or not so young contemporary) silversmiths so far as to show some of their creations? IP: Logged |
agleopar Posts: 850 |
posted 03-31-2006 07:50 AM
Raf Steel makes a good point and it makes me think of England where young hot silver designer/makers are coming up with cutting edge designs. Are their costumers young? Well maybe 30's because the 20 somethings have not made enough to commission work. The 30yr olds I know who buy silver do it for the same reasons they would have in the 18th c., status. This is not talking about collecting,but from my own past my childhood collecting ended and it was thirty years before I started the adult one. One last thought and that was the contemporary collection of Prof. Rabinovich, which I thought the concept of commissioning silversmiths to make a fish slice meant that for a relatively modest amount of money he acquired a truly great collection. Anyone could do this with as small an object as a cup, on up in size and cost. The thought is to show young potential collectors that it can be done in the moment and reasonably. IP: Logged |
carlaz Posts: 239 |
posted 03-31-2006 08:24 AM
Just last week, I was attempting to assist an overly confident customer on the phone when the gentleman inquired my age and background in the silver industry. As I near the 40 year old mark (eeek!!!), I was both insulted and confused at what my age had to do with my ability to answer his rather simple questions on his Gorham Silver pattern. He felt I too 'young' to have any worthwhile knowledge and wanted to speak to someone older who would know better. Now, mind you, I literally grew up in the antique business, being dragged (physically some of the time) to antique shops, flea markets, and antique shows before I knew better. I have more than twenty years experience and exposure to the market. I get so frustrated when someone judges my age. At some of the shows, I run into a couple of dealers who have their daughters in tow and to my delight, I find that a 13 year old girl knows the difference in patterns, hallmarks and piecetypes. I used to get a giggle out of one specific dealer's daughter who used to roll around the Atlantic City show on her rollerskates! I was fortunate to have my mother encourage my education, share her knowledge and experience, and introduce me to many dealers who have helped me along the way. Of course, you might not have gotten that answer from me when I was 15 and stuck at Brimfield at 6 am on a cold rainy fall day, but I guess as we get older, we do get wiser . [This message has been edited by carlaz (edited 03-31-2006).] IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 03-31-2006 09:04 AM
I have an idea. It is inspired by the past and hopefully would find support in the evolving “Living Silvermiths” forum concept, which is under development. In the middle of this thread counterstamped 1810 half-cent (click here) about counterstamped coins, was the idea for contemporary smiths to return to counterstamping coins. Here’s my idea.... New collectors will have the opportunity to collect something that is affordable and not mass produced (a.k.a. the Franklin mint). So over time their collection has a shot at being a good investment. The new collectors will develop similar hunting skills just as we have to with our antique collecting. The thrill of the hunt....etc. For some, I expect the refining of those skills will expand their horizons to antiques. I am sure inspired collectors will seek out smiths (like autograph hounds) so this will become an interesting way for new smiths to be discovered. I also think this will become a good and inexpensive marketing tool for “Living Silversmiths” As the new collector matures they may start complimentary collections of the smiths they have been introduced to. My imagination can carry on but I think I will stop here and see if anyone likes the rough concept. IP: Logged |
FWG Posts: 845 |
posted 03-31-2006 01:41 PM
I think that's a great idea. But there is a problem, as I understand it: under US law that would constitute defacing US coinage. An internet search will bring up interesting discussions as well as the text of the relevant laws (I searched "defacing coinage law", without the quotes). Is prosecution likely? Probably not. Could one win in court? Possibly. A different concern: how many silversmiths would want to mark a cupro-nickel coin for distribution? A solution: mark blank, generic planchets. Sterling discs (and other shapes) can even be bought commercially as raw material, and of course anyone could cut their own shape. That way each smith could have not only their mark, but their 'signature' shape. It could make an interesting, inexpensive collectible -- and perhaps even bring a little easy money to the smiths.... IP: Logged |
salmoned Posts: 336 |
posted 03-31-2006 10:22 PM
I imagine standardized blanks would serve the purpose best, not actual circulating coins. That way we could send or bring one or more to a smith for stamping (for a fee, of course). As well, the blanks could be fit into a collection book or standard display. This also serves the purpose of circulating current smiths' marks. I wonder how the smiths themselves view the idea - therein lies the rub. As for investment value, I suppose some marks may prove rarer than others, but I wouldn't dwell on this aspect. [This message has been edited by salmoned (edited 03-31-2006).] IP: Logged |
akgdc Posts: 289 |
posted 04-01-2006 09:27 AM
There's such a mysterious alchemy to collecting - indeed, to "hobbies" in general. They seem to come and find you when you are ready for them, rather than vice-versa. I think it would be impossible to "promote" silver to young collectors in a way that would be effective rather than slightly condescending (eg, by assuming that young people will be interested only in "young," ie modern, silver). Except, that is, by continuing to do what so many people here do so well: share their own knowledge and excitement generously with anyone who is interested. [This message has been edited by akgdc (edited 04-03-2006).] IP: Logged |
ringboxlady Posts: 95 |
posted 04-02-2006 11:38 PM
Hey, I found this topic very interested. I'm 39 and have been collecting sterling since, well, birth. someone was collecting it for me, my wonderful grandmother. He love for it rubbed off on me from an early age. We admired her chest of flatware and when I was with her at an antique show, she would purchase a new place setting or a special piece. Little did I know at the time she was also buying for me.... I honestly was interested in baby sterling, rattles, teething rings, baby cups because these are the things I has with my name and birthday on them. Then I was engaged and I was presented with a full chest of sterling, service for 10 and serving pieces. Now, I had been receiving a place setting for my birthday after the age of 16, so I had a few by the time I was engages. Then when I found out my patter also had holloware, oh my God, I went crazy!!!!!!! So I share this with my kids. They have a curio in their room with their sterling in it. All the baby silver and their special items. it's a tradition which you share and entrust they will pick up on. They see your passion and love for it, they too will love it. Now I collect vases, baskets, sewing items and of course my lovely ring boxes..... They see how crazy I am about the ring boxes and my little boy, who is just 6, wants to know if he will have one for his bride one day??? It's infectious!! And it should be. Silver is a wonderful thing to have..share.... pass on. Now as for those who are not exposed to it, my 13 year old daughter brings her friends to the house and it's out and in showcases in the living room, holding tulips on the table, on the bathroom vanity with daffodils. They ask and we start our spill. They are intrigued and before you know it their moms are asking........... Talk it up, that's the best way!! Make it exciting, they all won't collect it but they'll remember it. IP: Logged |
Paul Lemieux Posts: 1792 |
posted 04-03-2006 07:25 PM
Well, I'm 23, but nobody I know around my age collects much of anything. I rarely if ever see people my age at shows or auctions. IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 04-04-2006 06:08 AM
As to the legal question.... From the This unofficial compilation of the U.S. Code is current as of Jan. 4, 2012: quote: In other words, YES, it's LEGAL to do what we are talking about! IP: Logged |
Waylander Posts: 131 |
posted 04-04-2006 08:11 AM
I can empathise with Paul - I am only 25, but find myself the youngest person easily at any shows (and the youngest member of the Silver Society of Australia by a few years as well). Waylander IP: Logged |
FredZ Posts: 1070 |
posted 04-04-2006 09:47 AM
The idea of countermarking a coin or blank for the pupose of increasing the knowledge of a silversmith or just to start an interesting collection is a great one. You can count me in right away. Fred IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 04-04-2006 10:01 AM
Fred - Put me on your list to get one. Scott IP: Logged |
salmoned Posts: 336 |
posted 04-04-2006 04:54 PM
The idea of using coins isn't as good as blanks, as it may raise the hackles of numismatists. It appears dimensions are the next matter to address. Is quarter size sufficient to fit most makers marks? IP: Logged |
t-man-nc Posts: 327 |
posted 04-07-2006 09:16 PM
As a Coin Collecter since a child, Common coin that have alteration, including "Love Token" a few of mine go back to the early 1600's from europe, has always been a unique sub group of collecting. Such Counterstamps can be quite expencive... Does anyone remember the Machines that streched a penny, ther are several still around today. I interpret the Statute as an intent to defraud, The Gold Plated 1883 5 Cent peice "Racketeers $5.00 Gold Piece" as being the intent if not Black Letter Law... Add me to the list, I will even supply the Coins if that would help. BTW Scott, I met a young silversmith, who does wonderful work, and got his bio and had him take a snip of silver and stamp his mark on it with the intent of sending it to you. You have my email, send me a address and I will forward it to you. "Smaug" IP: Logged |
t-man-nc Posts: 327 |
posted 04-07-2006 09:30 PM
Almost forgot the whole reason for the post.... Youth... I spend some time, when I can get free, helping out at a friends coin store at a flea market close to home. I Have a number of early colonial notes and coins that I leave on display, and include a number of Early Coin Silver spoons as well. On a number of occasions I have had Scouts (both Boy and Girl) come by and spend an hour talking about silver and a number have received Merit badges and the like while engaged in looking at the early American objects... I have found both young and old bent over the counter with their head in their hands wide eyed and engrossed in the tails of early silver. I also try to let them all hold old Colonial Script, Coins and Spoons, Hollowware etc. The Key for me is to tell them a story and ask them questions to engage them while they hold a dollar bill from 1776, or a coin from 1787, or the early Trifid spoon from London, and other pieces, including Spanish COBs, and Pieces of Eight and gold doubloons....
Just my Opinion… "Smaug" IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 06-15-2008 04:29 PM
Schools should do more of this...
Social Studies Department, Montgomery County's school system, located in the Washington D.C. suburbs, is the 16th largest in the United States.
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buddydori Posts: 2 |
posted 09-02-2008 03:39 AM
People of my generation collect things but unfortunately sterling, in particular flatware and other wares are not trendy.... yet. It is considered is bourgeois in our era, even by bourgeois kids themselves. I don't know of anyone else my age, besides my sister,who collects silver. I began last year with a service for 8 plus a few serving pieces. It was a way to mark a new life and also as an investment. since then curiosity grew and began collecting a menage of sterling patterns- monogrammed particularly with dates fascinate me the most. I use them daily, love the feel and weight, but switching to stainless (outside my home) is outright awkward. I personally crave history and stories in my surroundings. while eating an ordinary bowl of salad with a fork monogrammed "1888-1913" can't help pretending to be the original owners, living in a time before the first world war. And think about how rare people stay married for 25 years anymore. Some of my friends find my wares fascinating but has not considered collecting. Tonight at dinner I handed a friend a Latvian fork- she was very excited. And we used a coin silver butter knife monogrammed "1862" (with someone's initials) which sparked more interest. I think I'll have to invite everyone over for dinner to generate more interest in silverware IP: Logged |
Scott Martin Forum Master Posts: 11520 |
posted 09-02-2008 12:25 PM
Buddydori, Welcome to the Silver Salon Forums. Very nice first post. My edits were just to make it easier to read by putting lines between the paragraphs. I look forward to hearing more about your attempts to show friends the wonder of silver. Please let us know how it goes. IP: Logged |
Polly Posts: 1970 |
posted 09-03-2008 01:54 AM
Buddydori, may I ask around how old you are? I assume in your 20s? I know what you mean about silver seeming bourgeois. So funny that silver is bourgeois, but iPhones aren't! Have the Steampunk hipsters discovered silver yet? Perhaps they will soon. I remember about a decade ago, maybe, there was a little fad for nonmatching silver-plated table settings. Pottery Barn sold a line of it. It was supposed to look as if you'd picked it up at a flea market or a thrift shop, only you actually bought it new from the big, bourgeois Pottery Barn chain, paying big, bourgeois Pottery Barn prices. This was during the era when they also sold lots of brand new "distressed" furniture (maybe they still do?). Can you imagine buying brand-new, fake-old silverplate when for the same price you could buy solid silver made exquisitely by hand when Lincoln was running for president? I know, I'm preaching to the choir. My husband and I recently spent a weekend with friends who had also invited a couple of 30-something hipsters. (Our hosts were a 40-something hipster, if that's not an oxymoron, married to a 30-something hipster, a Younger Man; the other couple were art-school classmates of his.) The woman in the 30-something couple is descended from a distinguished American Robber Baron era literary figure & art collector. Subsequent generations dispersed (she said squandered) most of his treasures, but she had inherited some of that branch of the family's mid-19th century coin-silver spoons and what sounded to me like pearl-handled fish knives, which she and her husband use daily, she said. We had a long conversation about mid-19th century tableware, to the endless amusement of our hosts & spouses. Nobody seemed to think it was bourgeois. But then, the woman in question is in her 30s, not her 20s; the silver in question is an heirloom passed down over several generations; and she and I are both considered weirdos in our circles. IP: Logged |
nutmegr Posts: 58 |
posted 09-03-2008 03:11 PM
Two thoughts come to mind. First, this discussion has revolved around the question of "young people" in the generic sense, and how to interest them in silver. I'm curious about the members of this forum - in your own family, have you been able to pass on your passion for collecting silver to your own children? My own kids are too young to tell for sure, but the girls (15,9,5) like to play with my collection. We have tea parties, and the oldest one is getting really good at identifying marks - while even the youngest can identify some really unusual serving pieces! My son (16) has no interest in the marks, but does appreciate unusual monograms and certain motifs (like the knight on Whiting's Heraldic.) Long run, who knows - but I live in hope that they will collect or at least appreciate silver in the future. This brings me to my second point. I think the primary problem with the dearth of young collectors, is that too many of my parent's generation have deemed silver too much of a bother - they don't want to polish and so they pack it away. If kids aren't exposed to silver at home, used regularly, they have no reason to seek it out when they're on their own - because they haven't been able to build up a positive association with it. How many of us have fond memories of using a special silver cup or spoon or whatever at our grandparent's house when we were young - or some other experience that made us smile when we first came across some silver to buy when we were finally able to? Certainly, there will always be a certain segment drawn to collecting from an artistic point of view, but I suspect that its the emotional connection formed in youth that really leads to passionate collecting! ----------------- IP: Logged |
silverhunter Posts: 704 |
posted 09-03-2008 05:20 PM
Collecting silver is also a kind of archeology. What's the age, from which material is it made, where is it made, by which person or factory, how did it came at this place. Years ago I was digging in old piece undisturbed ground (somewhere in Holland, 6 meters below sea level) and try to find material most from the 16th and 17th century. Two children from a friend in the age of 12 year old I should learn about archeology. At first they were not totally interested, but that changed when they may dig into the ground by themselves. Own founded material came above, each founded material I explained with giving all the facts I knew. Also where it was used for, etc. I saw the interest growing, because they were part of a action what gave result and information in combination. When I tell my son about the few silver/plated objects I have and show him some, his reaction is often: "what's the value", he is interested in his own way of course, but I can't change his thoughts and respect his way of thinking. Curiosity is the beginning of discovery. By the way, one of the children has finished his study for a couple of years he is now a professional archaeologist, I'm a little proud. Now I have to try to get my son involved considering the interest of the beautiful silver there is in the world. IP: Logged |
buddydori Posts: 2 |
posted 09-12-2008 12:38 AM
Well, thank God I was blissfully ignorant when bourgeois Pottery Barn sold faux antiques. I'm amazed people were willing to pay lots of money for "fake" silverware than spend a little more for sterling, which retains value & history, and is great dinner conversation. The family silver is with my sister b/c she has the firstborns to pass down to, and they use it daily. The children were fed silverware from the day they were born. I'm excited for them for being connected to family history on a daily basis. I'm late twenties; my friends are my age or little older. Using silver in my home naturally triggers curiosities; intuitively they know it's different and has special energy. Few utilitarian pieces are elegant and thoughtful in this modern world. Though they may not become collectors, at least their awareness for silverware is raised. IP: Logged |
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